Friday, September 19, 2008

Career Planning - my story!

Sudah agak lama saya tidak menulis mengenai a HR topic. HR =Human Resource. And I am a HR pratitioner. I started my career as an Engineer in 1983. However, from year one I wanted to be a HR Leader. I walked into the office of the Director of HR at my first place of employment and asked him what does it take to be a HR Director like him. I was 26 years old. Alhamdullilah, I achieved my ambition when I was 36, and was also the youngest member of the Board for the company.
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My boss, the Chairman of the company said this to me when he broke the news of my promotion, "You don't look excited?"
I replied, "With this comes responsibilities, and I am thinking on how to give my best to you and the company!"
Then I added, " I am also thinking about my next career move!"
To which he said, "Yes, you have come far....and I am sure now you can see further. Find the destination you want to be....and work on it like you have been doing!".
That said.....! I was ready to move on.


I moved to another company in search for fresh challenges and opportunities to work on global stage. That was my next ambition - to be an International player.
Alhamdullillah, by age 44 I became an expats with a reputable Anglo-Dutch company. I have since travelled on business to more than 45 countries. I have held senior positions responsible for two separate regions; Asia and Middle East & North Africa. I have lived in three different countries outside of Malaysia.


In this entry, I want to share my own experience of climbing corporate ladder. Hopefully, it can be of help to a few of my readers.


1. Step one is to know Your Interest
- I was an engineer, having graduated with a technical degree. However my interest has been humanity and working with people. My values include to give something to others; helping them and making them happy.
- I strongly suggest everyone to dive into your value system. What makes you happy? What do you want your legacy to be?
- A famous quote, "If you do somethingyou really enjoy doing - you do not have to work another day!".
2. Know you strength
- I realize that I was good with people. Emphaty comes naturally to me. I am also perceptive and cosiderate. I am a good listener. And I am considerd helpful by others. My personality makes people find me approachable. I am also analytical, and have a passion for action and results.
I have a flair for creativity. In short, I know my strentgh - creative, people insights, and relationship building.
- What are your strengths. Be comfortable in talking about them. Seek feedback from others. Verify your own perception of self. Do others see you the same way you see yourself. What is it that others know about you which you don't know. Find out, pause and reflect.
- Leverage on your strength. Find a career which make use of your strength. Change course if necessary. Your climb will be faster, if you find an area which uses your notable strength rather than trying to improve areas of your weaknesses.
3. Know your weaknesses
- I am not good with details, neither am I interested. I prefer the big picture and concepts. It does not mean that I can't write an engineering paper, I can and did. But it was not my area of natural strength. Why force it? A squre peg is not meant for a round hole!
- My point about knowing your weaknesses is to avoid falling into the trap of trying to improve them. I do not believe in being an all rounder or jack of all trade and master of none. I believe in being a master in a few areas where you are naturally strong.
- If you must go for training, choose subjects where you are strong and be even stronger. Be the best you can be. Be world class! Afterall, Tiger woods never pretended to be Pele!
4. Know what you want to be
- I was specific. I wanted to be the HR Director, and within ten years.
- You too need to take destiny into your own hands. Be very specific of what you want to be. Visualize a clear picture of what that 'position' looks and feels like.
- If you are now a project manager, and you want to be a CEO of a company. Visualize the 'CEO' you; what will your office looks like, who works for you, what car will you drive, and what will make you successful. Be very clear in your own mind. Be even clearer on 'why' do you want to be a CEO. That will bring you down to your own values. Even, take time to describe your vision to your spouse. Add, modify that picture as you gather more information and has become clearer. Make it your dreams; in waking and sleeping time. Be paranoid about it.
5. You need luck, but you also need planning !
- I spent three years as an engineer, with a six months secondment to the HQ in Dallas Texas. I collected sufficient brownie points as an engineer to earn a promotion. Then I spend four years in the operations as one of the unit heads. This gave me management experience. When I graduated with a post graduate diploma in HR management ( part time studies ), the management saw how serious I was in pursuing my ambition. I studied HR formally to have a good foundation of knowledge to support my ambition.
- I asked the HR Director to mentor and coach me as a manager. In doing so, not only did I learn from him, but I also build relationship with him. I 'exposed' myself to one of the key decision makers as far as my career was concerned.
- I kept reminding my boss and the HRD of my ambition to be in HR. When there was a vacancy, I was offered a lateral move and was appointed one of the HR section managers. I flew with the opportunity and got myself ready to be a strong candidate for a HR Director, within the firm but also in the open employment market.
- I had both technical experience and management experience, and had sufficient track records of leadership and delivery.
- I suggest that you focus on getting both TECHNICAL ( Skills ) and Management ( Leading team, planning and controls ) experiences. Have both depth and breadth in your experience portfolio.
- Involving key decision makers in your career planning is essential. Make them partly responsible for your development. I use pro-active words here instead of waiting for things to come to you or waiting for invitations to arrive. Go get them! You need their help.
7. Career Milestones

I consider the following as significant milestones in my career.
- Moving from Technical to Management.
- Completed my post graduate diploma to support my declaration of ambition.
- Zig Zagging my way up between Operational roles and Corporate or Head Office roles.
- To leave my first company and join another - different culture, different vision and values, different opportunities, all of which only made me a better professional.
- To have stayed long enough in a role but not to long! My tenure in any role has been between 3 to 5 years. Long enough to have left some legacy behind and not too long to be a blocker to others and to be complacent.
- Have your own career milestones. Plan for them and go achieve them.

8. Involve your spouse / family in decision

- At everystep, along the way I involved my wife and my children in decisions. They need to be just as excited as me in moving to new places. Plan for schools, housing, circle of friends and social activities together.
- Each person need to know and feel the benefit for them - from the move! And this is up to you !
9. Keep at it! Don't give up.
-There were challenges along the way. Office politics which try to make your life miserable. Bosses which do not share the same values as you. Colleagues who back-stabs. Lots more.
-The important this is to have your eyes on your destinations, and take the opportunity with ever obstacles to renew your resolve to get there.
-Build allies, and beievers. You need people who support you and speak well of you. You can't walk alone, not in a corporate world.
- Be prepared to take one step back, if that will enable you to move three steps forward.
- Be true to your values. Do not sell your soul for the sake of your career. Make your conscience and principles your best allies.

10. Pray!
-As much and as often as possible, pray! Believe in your heart, "Allah Kareem".

ps: To the person who requested me to write something about career, I apologize for what I have written here falls short of your expectation.
---catch up with the Bazaar Ramadan update here.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Bazaar Ramadan ke 2 di Dubai - 12.09

Jalan yang selalunya lengang menjadi sibuk...Malaysians in UAE serbu Bazaar Ramadan!! Di bawah, Encik Muin from BARNAMA, Tuan CG, Tuan Syed Mohd Hasrin, dan Encik Abd Halim !
Imran, girl paling comel Dina, Ikmal - pic from abd halim.

above, Ketibaan Mrs Fnd and below Mr Fnd - jualan mereka mertabak, ayam percik dan karipap habis dalam 40 minit!! -pic fom abd halim
Below: me and my good friend encik Osman visiting from KL ! Terkejut dia dgn panas dan bazaar ramadan ala2 kg baru ada di Dubai....
Wan Julia berskaf merah melayan pelanggan, pic from abd halim
Puan F maybe calling her beloved husband to come help carry what she has bought! - pic from abd halim
meriah suasana tua muda semua ada! pic from abd halim
haziq, luqman pegang kotak duit, angah melayan pelanggan, amirul mengira duit! four from ranches...bonda berehat setelah memasak, ayahanda pula meronda2...

Event: Bazaar Ramadan kedua di Dubai on 12th September.
Modal: Ingredients paid for by urs truly, hard work at the kitchen with lots of motherly love by LiL, enthusiastic help from Luqman, Haziq, Amirul and Angah!
Menu: Asam pedas, kuih muih.
Profit Benefits : Lots of fun and joy being part of a small community of Malaysians preparing foods for Malaysians - home away from home!
Time together with childen doing something we don't normally do - Buat Business!!
For a brief moments my childen appreciated how difficult it is to earn money!
Last night, post the Bazaar Ramadan and while driving to a supermarket, I asked my children what they thought of the day's venture?
Their replies....

Luqman, "It was fun! I want to do it again....but, not during hot day like today!"

Amirul, "Quite embarassing when there was no customers....but was very happy when almost everything was sold in the end."

Haziq, "Too much hard work!! I prefer to be a photographer!"

Angah, "Penat tapi seronok!!"

They did well, not only at the stall but also at home by helping with the preparation.

Our deal was that they got to keep the profits....as it turned out, I hope they will keep the exprience and the joy of it all. There were not much financial gain at all...hehehe!

But at the supermarket last night, I did reward them with Baskin Robin ice-cream!

cantik rumah tuan CG siap ada swimming pool menyejukkan pemandangan.

sempat berposing dengan Mr Fnd! The cowboy hat is very functional in the summer heat! Baju sama biru, menu lain2! hehehe.pic from Din.

The second Bazaar was as Meriah as the first one. There were definitely more stalls and also more foods! Malaysians did not just visited the Bazaar for foods but also for meeting and catching up with friends. Many were seen mixing and socializing long after the buying were done. As one of the organizers, it was satisfying to see happiness on peoples' faces.
please also read the story told by Imeirda, here.
Pictures tell more accurate stories than words.....
di atas...icecream malaysia jualan Mat Ju & Puan shiela hot favourite untuk menghilangkan dahaga! Di bawah, gerai NikEiyda menjual laksam!! Bestttttt hingga makansatu nak lagi!!!
Di atas dua pasangan pengusaha gerai dari Kelantan...Mat Ju dan isteri Puan Shiela tokey nasi dagang, dan Rusdi dan Puan Mas penjual nasi kerabu.
Di atas ayam percik dari gerai Wan Azmi/Fahimi & the geng dan di bawah, puyuh goring pandan dari gerai arabica-x aluya!
Gambar di atas, finally time to count the money!! bersiap untuk tutup gerai!!
Banyak lagi gambar dari lensa imran di sini, dan dari abdul halim di sini.
Dari Din pula di sini
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Sunday, September 7, 2008

"On the way Madam...."

Baru mendapat khabar dari koresponden TV9 di Dubai bahawa video rakaman Bazaar Ramadan ini akan muncul menemui penonton Berita TV9 malam ini ( Isnin Sept 8th ).


The above - updated with you-tube video recording of the first Bazaar Ramadan in UAE! OOopppss, 51 and not 31 as said at the end of the video! Tersasul sbb cuaca boleh tahan panassss....hehehe

2pm today LiL called me at the office to ask for the gas man's number. She has just started to cook for our Iftar when the gas ran out. No fuss there! I gave her the number and she said, "Lucky it is only 2pm!"

Yes, lucky indeed, I thought to myself.

When I arrived home at 4pm, she was outside tending to the plants. It was still hot, so I asked her, "What are you doing in the sun?"
She wiped her face and replied, "I am waiting for the gas man. He said he was on the way!"
"That was 2 hours ago!"I queried.
"Yes, since 2 hours ago I have called him four times and each time he told me 'On the way madam!'."
Lil was obviously agitated. I walked into the kitchen and saw two pieces of crabs in the frying pan - half fried and lots more awaiting frying. The rice has been cooked using the electrical rice cooker. Vegetables readily chopped and washed, not yet cooked. To show my concern, I called the gas man, after reminding myself to remain cool.
"Sir, on the way sir!" came the reply.
"Where the *toots* you? You have been on your *toots* way since 2pm. We want to cook ! You understand!!" Oh my God, I lost my cool. Ermmmm.....
"Sir, you want gas, yes! I on my way sir!" He was like a broken record programmed to repeat the same line.
"How far? what time?" I asked.
"On the way sir!"
I gave up.

We decided to wait, patiently. LiL and I kept ourselves busy googling for recipes to cook for the Ramadan Bazaar this coming Friday. We want to open up a stall, and have even decided to name our stall 'Rencah Ranches'. We were having fun, and spent good time in here and here looking and copying recipes for traditional Malay Kuih. Thank you!!

6pm, and our gas man did not arrive. We took a decision to buy food. But where? No warung or pasar ramadan we can drive to. We asked the children what they wanted, and almost in unison came a reply, "Burger King!!!". Huh - burger for iftar!
"Why not........" I said, and gestured to LiL to come with me to the Burger King, a mere 10 minutes drive from home.

Today, someone has been trying to deliver our gas supply, and he has been on his way since 2pm. For five freaking hours, a flight from Bombay would have touched down and taxied safely in Dubai, and we could have collected our gas cylinder at the arrival hall!!!

And we were still waiting for our gas at 7!!!
And this man was only from Al Qouz,
reputedly and factually
only 30 minutes
drive away.

But but.....the burger was good, I tell yea!!!!

Top: Burger plus dates. Above, crabs - left uncooked!

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Ramadan Bazaar - 5th September

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Malaysian in UAE - Bazaar Ramadan
Friday, 5th September 2008 : From 4pm to 6pm
At the Consul General Residence

Villa 25!


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Menu of Foods which will be available

Above - menu dari stall Shiela. Her blog here


Dari stall Arabica-x-Aluya
Assam Pedas Ayam Armani
Ikan Bakar Ferragamo
Sup Rusuk Prada
Puyuh Goreng Pandan Vuitton
Kerabu Bilis Alexander McQueen
Masak Lemak Telor Cavali

Dari stall Puan Rosma
Roti Jala
Mee Kuning

Dari stall Puan Tipah
Seri muka pandan dan durian
Kuih Kaswi, Kuih ketayap,
Kuih lapis, karipap
Talam ubi, Bingka ubi
Koleh kacang, cucur badak
Bubur lambuk Kamgpung Baru

Dari stall Puan Nora
Nasi Berlauk - Lima jenis lauk!

Dari Stall Puan Yati (Dell)
Western Foods

Dari Stall Puan Mastura
Nasi kerabu
(Solok Lada / Ikan goreng tepung)

Dari stall Puan Shiela
Nasi Dagang

Dari stall Puan Suhaila
Nasi Beriyani

Dari stall Puan Noriman
Akok, Buah Tanjung, kuih pelita
Laksa Kelantan, Laksa Penang

Dari stall Pantai Timur

Ayam percik, ketupat sotong,
Caramel , Cucur udang

Dari stall Sulastri / Nur Erika
Nasi Lemak
Mee Hoon udang
Popia, samosa, cucur udang,
Kuih melaka, Puding

Dari stall Sdr Shahrul
Mee Goreng Mamak - Dh7/pack
Nasi Ayam - Dh15/pack
Mee Hoon Goreng - Dh7/pack
Gado-gado - Dh10/pack
Ayam Masak Merah - Dh5/pc
Acar Timun/Nenas - Dh3/pack
Pengat Pisang - Dh5/pack
Bubur Kacang Hijau - Dh5/pack

Lokasi:
Has been changed to the Residence of Tuan Consul General di Al Basha.

To all Malaysians in UAE:
Datang2lah beramai2 memeriahkan Bazaar Ramadan kita ini. By Malaysians for Malaysians.


Jadikan setiap hari Jumaat sebagai hari tidak memasak, dan hari Tunjuk2!! Tunjuk jer apa yang anda idamkan, errrr, dan jangan lupa bayar ye!! hehehe
InsyaAllah, kita juga akan mengadakan sessi rakaman untuk siaran di TV9 di Malaysia.

Kepada Penjual2:
Di harap tidak lupa membawa peralatan sendiri. Dan silalah promosikan menu jualan anda.
Terimakasih kepada semua yang telah sudi untuk meluangkan masa memasak makanan dan juadah untuk warga Malaysians sempena Ramadan ini. Semoga dapat mengubati kerinduan kita ....


Ini kata-kata dari penjual


Dari Puan Noriman ( Puan Neme )


"Salam...
Datang la beramai-ramai ke Bazaar Ramadhan jumaat ni.
For the first and only time, this friday Kak Neme akan berjualan!!!!
Datang 'tunjuk-tunjuk' (and bayar ye) macam-macam juadah.................
From Kak Neme's Kitchen ada Laksa Kelantan, Laksa Asam, Akok, Tepung Pelita and Buah Tanjung................... rugi kalu ado oghe kelate tok maghi!!
Ado nasik keghabu Mas lagi (tolong promote, mas).
And Shiela's nasi dagang (kak neme dah pernah rasa, bessssst)
And from Suhaila's Kitchen ada Nasi Briyani dengan Dalca - sedaaaaaaap.
Tipah pulak buat bermacam jenis kueh, authentic lagi lazat - gerenti nak lagi!
Dengar khabar mee goreng tu sedap kowww punya.
Dan yang lain-lain................................"

Dari Puan Mastura , akan menjual Nasi Kerabu resipi Mami!


"Salam Ramadhan untuk semua malaysian... Saya nak ucapkan selamat menjual dan selamat tunjuk-menunjuk di bazaar ramadhan jumaat ini! Thanks to Pak Payne, kak Yati dan suami, dan Tuan Consul General kerana bermurah hati mengadakan bazaar ramadhan seperti di Malaysia! saya tak sabar nak rasa suasana mcm kat M'sia kat Dubai ni. adik kakok dan jugo abe-abe boleh dapatkan nasi kerabu tumis kami kat bazaar ramadhan jumaat ning! "



Wassalam!



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