Monday, May 9, 2011

"You will not talk to my wife like that ~!"

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Only two days ago I wrote about 'Pongoh' and 'Gedebe!'- or 'Temper with a don't give a damn attitude' and how I have changed for the better. Oh well...What a premonition! This morning, while I din't lose my temper, I displayed my 'Gedebe' in the face of one 'Kurang Ajar' - or 'ill mannered' person.
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  1. Pak ZawiMay 9, 2011 at 1:35 AM

    PP, you did the right thing. If I were you, I would punch him in the face rather than just point a finger at his nose. A report to the school authority should be in order so that he won't be rude to anybody else the next time around. If that report can hurt his career a bit, that will just serve him right. 'Pongoh' is the apt word to describe you in that instance.

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  2. Ariffin MamatMay 9, 2011 at 2:28 AM

    Pak Zawi, sebab i didn't lose my temper, so tak der la 'keta kenaleng' raso nok gocoh oghe...hahaha. Cuma nak ajar Mat Salleh tu jak, supaya hormat sikit~!
    Kalu ambo jamae mudo2 dulu gak..lekat penapa doh mmuko dio!

    yes, 'pongoh' tu ado lagi...cubo jaghe2 tubek!

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  3. julMay 9, 2011 at 2:31 AM

    Bravo Pp, I salute u for standing up to yr beloved wife. My hubby would, too do the same if I faced similar situation. There was once long time ago when we just got married, I complained someone used our garbage bin to throw his beer bottles and they overflew. My hubby went out in the open and shouted to the highest pitch he could to get the said guy came out and confront him ih he dare. Bagus gak kalau dia ada black belt, black beard adale masa tu, tp hubby punya muka mmg fierce and tambah lg dgn hairy nature..I pon takut klu dia mengamuk.

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  4. Ariffin MamatMay 9, 2011 at 2:40 AM

    Jul...:-)

    minor point...but I think u meant to say, standing up 'for' my beloved wife, rather than standing up 'to' hehehe. maksudnya berbeza tu..

    Wow...syabas to ur husband! Kadang2 ada black beard pun orang ingat kita ada black belt, bila kita ada prinsip~!

    Errr, selalu ka dia mengamuk? hehehe.

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  5. irenewynnMay 9, 2011 at 3:50 AM

    Good for you PP! Unfortunately in my case, it would be me who will fly off the handle. But that was in the younger days lah. Hehe

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  6. Syaliza Abdul RahmanMay 9, 2011 at 4:24 AM

    hmm... sya yg pongoh. if we were in your situation, i'd be shouting at that guy 1st than my husband hehehe

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  7. AnonymousMay 9, 2011 at 9:32 AM

    bravo pakpayne! kalu kawe.. kawe yang cekok pinggae sergoh defler with some choice words, mok aji notwithstanding!

    kama

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  8. julMay 9, 2011 at 12:21 PM

    sori Pp, i budak baru blajar maaa....salu buat kesilapan, sila tunuk ajarkan..tq for the correctio of my grammatical error, teacher. hihi

    salu gak...darah muda, skang takle sejak dah berumur ni, kurang stamina dah koot

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  9. zainal samsiMay 9, 2011 at 2:44 PM

    Kalau kawe terus ghoyak bahasa melayu sokmo, tak kirolah gedebe tu fehe ke dok.....

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  10. Ariffin MamatMay 9, 2011 at 6:30 PM

    Irene :-) siapa sangka di sebalek wajah yang tersenyu itu ada seorang wanita 'pongoh' rupanya...hehehe.

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    Syana :-)...u will be shouting at the guy first, then ur husband? ada kah sya akan shout to ur husband, or ur husband akan shut to the guy after u? hehehe

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  11. Ariffin MamatMay 9, 2011 at 6:32 PM

    Mok AJI Kama :-) hehehe. boleh sayang bayangkan mok Aji cekk Pinggae ggitu! Bengis....!

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    Jul :-) nampak muda lagi lah....mana boleh kurang stamina? hehehe

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    Zainal...kawae baco komen demo pung kawae dop pehae...hahaha

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  12. SyigimMay 9, 2011 at 7:02 PM

    oOooh nice one pakpayne! i think the mat saleh dude was lucky la u didn't do more than just pointing fingers n kept your words quite civilized rather than swearing! u protect ur damsel in distress, yet managed to do it with grace. ;)

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  13. Ariffin MamatMay 9, 2011 at 7:38 PM

    Syigim :-) honestly, i could have been even more civilized and graceful ...for example by following the message from Ayat34, Surah Al Fussilat yang bermaksud, ""Dan tidaklah sama (kesannya dan hukumnya) perbuatan yang baik dan perbuatan yang jahat. Tolaklah (kejahatan yang ditujukan kepadamu) dengan cara yang lebih baik apabila engkau berlaku demikian maka orang yang menaruh rasa permusuhan terhadapmu, dengan serta merta akan menjadi seperti seorang sahabat!"

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  14. Syaliza Abdul RahmanMay 9, 2011 at 8:03 PM

    Pp, we've never had such a situation yet ... so dunno what he'll do but i know what i'll do.

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  15. AnonymousMay 10, 2011 at 11:56 AM

    Salam sejahtera pp, beruntung dapat suami macam pp. Suami saya akan hanya berdiam diri dan saya terima dia seada nya.

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  16. PpMay 10, 2011 at 12:52 PM

    Anon 11:56 :-) Puan juga beruntung...cuma masing2 suami ada kelebihan dan kelemahan sendiri...dan mengikut situasi...jika puan sudah dapat menerima seadanya, itu lah sebaik2 dan sebahagia2 berpasangan...~!Alhamdullillah.

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  17. Fadzilah MamatMay 14, 2011 at 5:21 AM

    Wah.. saya sokong sangat tindakan Encik ni.. Gentleman habis! :)

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  18. Ariffin MamatMay 21, 2011 at 10:51 PM

    Fadzilah :-) alhamdullillah, mendapat ilham untuk bertindak begitu...:-)

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